What if I told you that the thing you’ve been chasing in relationships isn’t love—it’s approval? Most people don’t realize the difference until their emotional needs go unmet despite constant effort. You bend, adapt, over-deliver, people-please, shrink, overthink—and still feel unloved. That’s not because you’re broken. It’s because you’re confusing conditional approval with unconditional…
Love should be a safe place, not a stage where you’re constantly auditioning for approval. But for many of us, love has become a test—one we feel we’re always on the verge of failing. You overthink every word, silence feels like punishment, and you interpret emotional withdrawal as your fault. That’s not love. That’s…